Starboy
Last week, I wrote you a note. I called it “Leveling Up.” I talked about the fantastic progress you’d made, waking at 5am, better behaviour, keeping your promises. I was so proud and ended by asking you to “Mind the Gap,” to focus on that space between good and great, specifically with your time management, focus and taking the initiative.
I have to be honest with you: this week,
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I wanted to write you something a bit different. Not a lecture, not a list of rules, but a proper shout-out and a bit of a game plan for the next level. I hope, not one step forward and two steps backwards- But a deliberate attempt to level up and to get better every day. Permit me to refer you to Kobi again. Your joked recently about the ESTEBAN MENTALITY,
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Last Sunday morning, during our workout, we spoke about something that matters just as much as fitness: focus. We talked about how mobile phones, while useful, can also become a major distraction — especially for someone chasing big dreams, like becoming a professional footballer.
To make this real, we watched an interview between Michael Owen and Rio Ferdinand. Both former England players explained how staying focused, avoiding distractions,
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In my last post, “The Girl Who Calls Me Daddy — Preparing My Daughter for Her Future”, I wrote about the quiet battles of raising my daughter—the tantrums that look more like tears than shouting, the Kumon worksheets that feel like marathons, and the way she walks through life so differently from her brother. That post was about rhythm, patience, and the sacred work of preparing her for life, not just school.
Today’s post is
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Dear Lads,
The summer break gave us all time to recharge — but also to test ourselves. The squad was split in half and entered different tournaments. Some of you lifted a trophy after the drama of penalties, others battled all the way to the final and finished runners-up, and another group pushed hard into the semi-finals before bowing out. Different outcomes, same truth: every one of you showed grit, determination, and the courage to compete
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In my last post, “When Talent Isn’t Enough — Part II”, I shared the story of Dele Alli—a footballer who rose to stardom early, only to find himself at a crossroads because talent alone wasn’t enough. His journey is a stark reminder that discipline, mindset, and humility are what sustain success, not raw ability.
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My name is Kelly-Kester. 
‘Influential fathers’ was created to help fathers and aspiring fathers to become FATHERS of GREATER INFLUENCE. Fathers play an important role in every society but many fathers are workaholics and are increasingly overwhelmed by the demands of competing priorities. This usually affect their level of influence in the life of their children and beyond their home.