In Parenting Beyond Performance, I reflected on the heart and mind behind raising a son who doesn’t fit the box. Then came Third time lucky where I shared the emotional build-up to my son’s third and final football academy trial—the early mornings, the long drives, the moments of quiet doubt, and the prayers whispered under my breath.
Today, I write with a full heart: he made it. He
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In my last post, I opened up about the quiet battles of raising a child who doesn’t fit the box. About my son’s journey through grammar school, the detentions, the daily struggles, and the small wins that feel monumental when no one else sees them. That post came from a place of weariness—but also a deep, grounded hope. Yesterday he had his third and final trial session as I mentioned in my last post
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Faith, Growth and the Journey ahead
The countdown began last week, and tomorrow, my son steps back onto the pitch for his “third and final trial session” with the academy—a moment filled with hope, quiet prayer, and a father’s steady nerves. I want nothing more than for him to continue training beyond this final session and into the new season. But whatever the outcome, one truth stands firm: God’s will must prevail.
As part
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This Monday, I watched with bated breath as my son—affectionately nicknamed KingKong—stepped onto the pitch for trials at an established football academy. The competition was intense: dozens of talented, technically gifted kids all vying for a spot.
Yet somehow—against the odds—we got the call: he’s been invited to train with the academy squad.
It’s a milestone. But more than that, it feels familiar. Because we’ve been here before—twice, in fact!
Last weekend, I took time off work as part of the Father’s Day celebration to support my son at a football tournament. It was another opportunity to cheer him on, bond over the sport he loves, and hopefully see his team succeed.
But what unfolded wasn’t just about football—it became a deeply personal reminder of what it means to grow, stumble, and be held accountable. A lesson in humility. In reflection. In legacy. A moment
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In my last post, Legacy in Motion, I shared how I’ve tried to shape legacy not just through effort, but through presence—those early morning runs with my son, showing up tired but intentional, building habits that shape character. But legacy isn’t only built through routine and visible commitment.
One of my children may be what some might describe as “special needs”—though we’ve received no formal diagnosis. As his father, I see the
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My name is Kelly-Kester. 
‘Influential fathers’ was created to help fathers and aspiring fathers to become FATHERS of GREATER INFLUENCE. Fathers play an important role in every society but many fathers are workaholics and are increasingly overwhelmed by the demands of competing priorities. This usually affect their level of influence in the life of their children and beyond their home.