In my last post, “The Girl Who Calls Me Daddy — Preparing My Daughter for Her Future”, I wrote about the quiet battles of raising my daughter—the tantrums that look more like tears than shouting, the Kumon worksheets that feel like marathons, and the way she walks through life so differently from her brother. That post was about rhythm, patience, and the sacred work of preparing her for life, not just school.
Today’s post is
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Dear Lads,
The summer break gave us all time to recharge — but also to test ourselves. The squad was split in half and entered different tournaments. Some of you lifted a trophy after the drama of penalties, others battled all the way to the final and finished runners-up, and another group pushed hard into the semi-finals before bowing out. Different outcomes, same truth: every one of you showed grit, determination, and the courage to compete
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In my last post, “When Talent Isn’t Enough — Part II”, I shared the story of Dele Alli—a footballer who rose to stardom early, only to find himself at a crossroads because talent alone wasn’t enough. His journey is a stark reminder that discipline, mindset, and humility are what sustain success, not raw ability.
In Part 1 of why Talent isn’t enough, we explored why talent alone won’t carry you to your dreams. We talked about sacrifices, attitude, humility, and the stories of young boys who had greatness in their feet—but not in their mindset. Now, here comes a powerful example from the professional game.
Dele Alli: A Talent Lost — Unless He Changes
You’ve just come home from Scotland where you spent some time with Uncle Smart. You’ve been to Africa, spent time with family and seen things few kids your age do. That trip wasn’t a break-up; it was a reset, a reminder that dreams—especially big ones like football—need work, mindset, and heart. In Parenting a 12 Year Old with Big Dreams, I wrote that talent isn’t enough — dreams need effort, focus, coachability, and humility
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Currently away with Family with his Sister, I have missed them both. I hear the 5am alarm and can’t wait for the kids to return home. It’s almost time for a new football season, and a new academic year too—
For Kingkong, a fresh start, a clean slate. Before the boots go back on, before the whistle blows.
Hey Kingkong, I wanted to share something with you.
You’ve been through a lot
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My name is Kelly-Kester. 
‘Influential fathers’ was created to help fathers and aspiring fathers to become FATHERS of GREATER INFLUENCE. Fathers play an important role in every society but many fathers are workaholics and are increasingly overwhelmed by the demands of competing priorities. This usually affect their level of influence in the life of their children and beyond their home.
